FINDING THE RIGHT ONE

Every women dreams to find her Mr. Right, but many sometimes end up with the wrong guy. 

            Finding Mr. Right is not just looking at his appearance or his social standing, but for characteristics that make a lasting relationship.

            One reason why women end up with the wrong guy is that, although she dated, she did not know what she wants in a man to make her happy.

            A relationship is always a two-way traffic. Both parties should complement each other.

            Mr. Right is a guy with whom you could be happy, who could be your soul mate, and who would value this enough to be honest and true to you.

            In today’s modern world, many would say Mr. Right is no longer “righteous”. However, if you are duped into believing there is only one man out there for you, you will have a tendency to get discouraged and settle for less, give up and live alone or wrongly assume the first guy who shows up carrying flowers is Mr. Right.

            Some men are worse and some are better. Your job is to identify the best candidates you can, and there are many of them.

            Once your love develops, he will become the only one for you. That’s what attachment means. It is your heart, not destiny, which turns a mere man into a unique, irreplaceable partner for all your days.

MEN’S SECRET IN CHOOSING WOMEN

            Men also search for Miss Perfect, not only the girl they fantasized about but also their dream girl.

            Men have their own ways of doing things. No matter how strange men are, if you want to meet the right one, you have to clue in to how they think. If you try to change men or just don’t get them you’ll be stymied. But if you accept how they are, forgive them and work with them, you will have enormous power and effectiveness.

            Here’s how:

• ·         Facial looks are totally subjective: the same women can look feminine and pretty to one man and the opposite to another. The same goes for body shapes and sizes.
• ·         Men’s relentless scrutiny of women, the things that drives feminists crazy, is just as much a screening even if it is intimidating.
•      The most confident, forward man in the group is not always the most interested, and the one who can’t get a word out may be the one who is stricken with attraction.
• ·         Men may seem to be judging solely on appearance, but in fact they see in appearance many other levels of humanity.

            The ideal venue for you to meet a man is where you can both be comfortable, not dingy or dangerous. Check out places where people like you gather.